October 2026 | On seven years in Britain, a week indoors, and the rather inconvenient discovery that time was never competing with me.

The clock on the wall had become insufferably confident.

It ticked through breakfast, ticked through the afternoon, and continued ticking long after I had abandoned all reasonable attempts to maintain a proper sleeping schedule. I had been off sick for several days, and the house was beginning to feel less like a home and more like an establishment where I had accidentally booked an extended stay without access to the usual amenities. The curtains admitted a miserable amount of October daylight, the duvet alternated between being my greatest comfort and an unbearable inconvenience, and every room seemed to contain some combination of coffee, medicine, cat fur, and the peculiar atmosphere created by spending too much time indoors. Even the clock sounded louder than usual, as though it had been promoted to management and was determined to remind me that time was passing whether I made anything useful of it or not.

I have discovered that being unwell is an extraordinarily effective way of disrupting one’s relationship with the calendar. Without the familiar routine of alarms, uniforms, hospital shifts, and the usual calculations involved in getting ready for work, the days began losing their identities. Breakfast could occur suspiciously close to lunchtime, an innocent afternoon nap could develop into a lengthy disappearance from civilisation, and bedtime became a theoretical concept rather than an arrangement I was particularly good at observing. More than once, I checked my phone simply to confirm what day it was. Tuesday and Friday had become almost interchangeable, although I suspect Friday would have been deeply offended to discover that I could no longer recognise its importance.

For someone accustomed to working long shifts and organising life around a duty rota, the sudden absence of structure felt strangely disorientating. Normally, I know where I am supposed to be, what time I need to leave, and approximately how much sleep I can negotiate before another responsibility requires my attention. Even my days off tend to arrive carrying a collection of unfinished tasks. There is laundry to do, something to clean, messages to answer, groceries to buy, and a growing assortment of personal projects that I have apparently convinced myself can be completed during the same twenty-four hours. Being unwell interrupted those arrangements rather decisively. My carefully constructed plans continued existing, of course, but I was no longer in a position to give them the attention they demanded.

Miyuki and Luna appeared equally confused by this unexpected change in household operations. My cats are accustomed to a relatively predictable arrangement in which Mama disappears for work, returns several hours later, and resumes her unpaid duties as their personal caterer, cleaner, photographer, and occasional entertainment provider. Instead, there I was, occupying the sofa at unusual hours, appearing in rooms where I was not normally present during the day, and interrupting what I suspect were carefully established feline routines. At first, they seemed rather pleased with the additional availability of human staff. There were more opportunities to request attention, investigate whatever I was doing, and remind me that the treat supply should remain under regular review.

After several days, however, I began to suspect that my continuous presence was becoming an administrative concern. Luna would look at me with an expression that seemed to question whether my employment arrangements had undergone an unexpected change. Miyu, meanwhile, continued with her own activities, occasionally inspecting my surroundings as though checking whether I intended to remain there permanently. I could almost imagine the two of them convening a private meeting to discuss the situation. Their mother had failed to report for work, taken possession of valuable sofa space, and increased the amount of time available for unsolicited affection. There were obvious benefits, certainly, but somebody would eventually have to explain why the usual household arrangements had been suspended without consulting the cats.

The trouble with being indoors for too long is that the smallest details begin demanding an unreasonable amount of attention. I noticed the sounds of the house more clearly: the refrigerator humming, the kettle clicking off, the radiator making its occasional complaint, and the soft movement of paws across the floor. The quality of the daylight became something I could observe changing throughout the afternoon. A cup of tea could occupy considerably more time than it normally deserved, and even changing into fresh clothes felt like an accomplishment worthy of acknowledgement. I had not expected a few days of illness to turn ordinary domestic activities into major events, but apparently my standards of entertainment had become remarkably accommodating.

There was also the peculiar frustration of being physically present while feeling unable to participate properly in the day. I could see the hours passing, knew that ordinary life continued outside, and remained conscious of everything I had intended to do. The list of unfinished responsibilities did not disappear simply because I was unwell. If anything, some of them became more irritating because I had so much time to think about them. I would occasionally consider getting up to do something useful, only to be reminded that wanting to complete a task and having sufficient energy to complete it were entirely different matters. My brain continued producing suggestions with the enthusiasm of an unreasonable supervisor, while the rest of my body seemed determined to observe the terms of an unofficial strike.

I found that contradiction particularly annoying because I spend so much of my working life encouraging other people to pay attention to their health. As a nurse, I understand the importance of recognising symptoms, allowing appropriate recovery, and respecting the practical limits of the human body. I have given enough advice about rest to know that it should not require an elaborate philosophical argument. Yet when I was the person needing time away from work, I occasionally caught myself wondering whether I should be doing more. Apparently, possessing professional knowledge does not prevent somebody from becoming a remarkably uncooperative patient.

Perhaps it is because so much of adulthood revolves around being useful. We become accustomed to judging a day according to what we have completed, how many responsibilities we have managed, and whether the time available was spent sensibly. Even leisure can begin resembling another obligation. We read because we want to finish a book, exercise because we have set a target, travel because we want to see particular places, and occasionally photograph a pleasant afternoon so extensively that enjoying it becomes a secondary concern. Somewhere along the way, simply having a day seems to have become insufficient. We must demonstrate that we have made appropriate use of it.

I was beginning to feel the absurdity of this arrangement while lying beneath a duvet that had already witnessed several consecutive days of my unsuccessful negotiations with productivity. There I was, unwell and needing rest, yet still mentally reviewing everything I had not accomplished. I had somehow managed to turn recovery into another task that required efficient completion. It was not enough to feel better eventually; apparently, I also wanted to recover according to a schedule that would minimise inconvenience to my other plans. The human body, unfortunately, does not operate like a carefully managed project, and mine was showing very little interest in meeting my preferred deadline.

Then, after almost a week of what I had begun referring to as house arrest, I finally felt well enough to venture outside.

I would like to report that my return to society was marked by a little ceremony. Perhaps the neighbours might have applauded, a brass band could have assembled near the pavement, or somebody might have arranged a modest ribbon-cutting exercise to acknowledge my successful departure from the house. Instead, absolutely nothing happened. Cars continued moving along the road, people carried their shopping bags, and the neighbourhood displayed a disappointing lack of interest in my reappearance. I stepped outside and discovered that the world had been getting along perfectly well without me, which was both reassuring and a little insulting.

The cold October air felt particularly refreshing after days spent indoors. I noticed things I would ordinarily have walked past without consideration: the colours of flowers arranged outside shops, the brightness of window displays, the movement of people along the pavement, and the familiar sounds of a town carrying on with its weekend. There was nothing especially extraordinary about any of it. The flowers had presumably been there before, and I doubted the shopkeepers had made special arrangements for my benefit. But after several days of seeing the same rooms, even the ordinary surroundings seemed to possess a renewed appeal. Apparently, one does not require a spectacular landscape to appreciate being outside. Sometimes a pavement and a respectable amount of fresh air will do.

I have always enjoyed wandering through shops without necessarily intending to purchase anything, although I acknowledge that the distinction between browsing and shopping becomes increasingly theoretical once I enter a bookshop. There is something about shelves filled with books that makes me feel immediately interested in staying longer than planned. I enjoy examining covers, reading titles, discovering unfamiliar authors, and finding books that I had not known existed until they began making a compelling argument for inclusion in my collection. I often enter with perfectly sensible intentions. I am only looking, I tell myself, which is a wonderfully reassuring statement until I encounter something I want.

The bookshop offered precisely the kind of distraction I had missed during my week indoors. There were novels, attractive editions, bookmarks, and little accessories whose usefulness was occasionally questionable but whose appearance was sufficiently charming to overcome the objection. I found myself examining cat-themed tote bags and other items that seemed designed specifically for people who already spend an unreasonable amount of time talking about their pets. Having Miyuki and Luna at home has apparently altered my shopping instincts. An ordinary design featuring a cat can now attract my attention with surprising efficiency, even when I possess absolutely no practical need for another bag.

One particular book caught my eye: We’ll Prescribe You Another Cat. I thought the title was wonderfully inappropriate for my circumstances. I already live with two cats who have established themselves as influential members of the household despite possessing no income, making no contributions towards domestic expenses, and demonstrating only occasional respect for my personal space. The idea of acquiring another seemed less like a medical recommendation and more like the beginning of a complicated administrative dispute. I could almost picture Miyuki and Luna reviewing the proposal and requesting clarification about sleeping arrangements, food allocation, and whether the new resident would be entitled to a share of the cat tree.

I suspect my cats would also expect a formal consultation before any changes were made to the household population. Luna, in particular, might regard a third cat as a serious infringement upon her existing territorial arrangements, while Miyu would probably insist upon conducting a thorough inspection of the newcomer and anything they happened to bring. I decided that two feline residents were quite sufficient for the time being. Nevertheless, I admired the book’s title and the confidence with which it suggested that additional cats might be an appropriate solution to life’s difficulties. Somewhere, I thought, an actual prescription pad was probably trembling.

I also spent time looking through music and familiar album covers. There is something satisfying about browsing records because it invites a different kind of attention from the quick searches and endless recommendations that usually accompany digital listening. An album cover can remind me of a particular period in my life before I have even heard a single note. Some songs take me back to school, others to journeys, friendships, or ordinary afternoons that I had almost forgotten. I find it fascinating how music can attach itself to memories without asking permission. Years later, a familiar introduction begins playing, and suddenly a place or person returns to mind with an immediacy that photographs sometimes struggle to reproduce.

I have been wanting to make more room for music lately, not simply as background noise while I complete other responsibilities, but as something I can enjoy properly. I love the way a good song can alter the atmosphere of an ordinary moment. A familiar melody may make a cold commute feel more bearable, while another can provide the right company for writing or reading. Sometimes a song catches my attention because its mood suits something I have been thinking about, even when I had not consciously been searching for it. I want more of those little encounters with music, the ones that encourage me to listen rather than merely allow sound to occupy the room.

Eventually, the afternoon involved food, which I considered an entirely appropriate development after several days of treating tea, toast, and whatever was convenient at home as the principal events of my culinary existence. We had hotpot, and I maintain that few meals announce a return to ordinary social life quite as enthusiastically. The table was crowded with ingredients, sauces, bowls, and the impressive apparatus required to turn dinner into an interactive experience. Steam rose from the divided pot, the broths bubbled away, and everyone began the familiar process of placing ingredients into the liquid while attempting to remember which items belonged to whom.

Hotpot is a delightful meal, although I have always considered it a slightly chaotic arrangement. One places perfectly recognisable food into the broth and then spends the next several minutes attempting to locate it again. Ingredients disappear beneath the surface, chopsticks begin conducting increasingly ambitious search operations, and somebody inevitably discovers an item that may or may not be the one they originally intended to retrieve. The process requires patience, attention, and a rather generous willingness to accept that dinner has become a collaborative investigation. Fortunately, I enjoy this sort of nonsense, particularly when the eventual reward is something delicious.

The table gradually developed the comfortable disorder that accompanies a successful hotpot meal. At first, everything looked wonderfully organised. The ingredients were neatly arranged, the bowls were clean, and the sauces occupied their designated spaces. After a while, however, the scene became considerably less elegant. Chopsticks travelled in unexpected directions, empty plates accumulated, and several items required rescuing from the depths of the broth. The division between the different soups became particularly important whenever something wandered into a section where it had not originally been intended to go. I suspect hotpot is one of the few dining experiences in which losing your dinner temporarily can become part of the entertainment.

I loved it. The warmth of the food, the conversation, the clatter of bowls, and the ordinary enjoyment of sharing a meal felt especially pleasant after spending so much time indoors. There was something satisfying about being sufficiently well to go out, sit around a table, and participate in an afternoon without having to think constantly about how unwell I felt. Nothing spectacular happened, and that was entirely acceptable. I was simply enjoying food and company, which seemed like a remarkable improvement upon my recent routine of moving between the bed, the sofa, and the kitchen.

It was also a rather fitting way to mark an anniversary that had been occupying my thoughts. That day marked seven years since the nine of us arrived in the United Kingdom together in October 2019. Seven years. I find that number slightly astonishing because, in certain respects, our arrival still feels recent. I can remember the mixture of excitement and uncertainty that accompanies beginning life in another country, especially when the place is unfamiliar and so many ordinary things require adjustment. Yet the calendar insists that seven years have passed, and I am beginning to suspect it has a stronger case than my memory.

Our group had discussed celebrating the anniversary properly, but the arrangements had not yet been settled. This was hardly surprising, considering how complicated organising people becomes once their lives have developed separate schedules and responsibilities. Seven years ago, we had shared the experience of arriving in the United Kingdom, beginning a chapter none of us could fully anticipate. We were connected through that particular moment in our lives, carrying our own expectations, worries, and ideas about what the future might look like. Now we had nine different lives, shaped by experiences that had not yet occurred when we first arrived.

I have been thinking about how strange it is to share a beginning with people without necessarily continuing along identical paths. There is something reassuring about having companions during an unfamiliar transition, particularly when everything around you requires learning. You may share practical difficulties, compare discoveries, and find comfort in knowing that other people are experiencing similar uncertainties.

But eventually, everyone begins developing a more individual relationship with the place where they have settled. Careers progress, friendships change, responsibilities increase, and personal priorities gradually move in directions that were not always visible at the beginning.

I do not think this necessarily diminishes the significance of what we shared. There is a difference between recognising that relationships have changed and deciding that their earlier importance has disappeared. I can appreciate the people who accompanied a particular period of my life even when our present circumstances are different. Some connections remain close, others become less frequent, and occasionally people begin relating to one another in ways that require adjustment. That is part of the complicated business of growing older alongside people who are also growing and changing, often according to schedules and priorities that no longer resemble our own.

Seven years ago, I could not have predicted everything that would happen between our arrival and this particular Saturday in October. I knew that coming to the United Kingdom would involve significant changes, but understanding a possibility in theory is different from living through its ordinary consequences. There were professional adjustments, practical responsibilities, new experiences, and decisions that gradually shaped the life I have now. Some things worked out differently from what I expected, and others became important in ways I had not anticipated. The interesting thing about looking backwards is that events which once seemed unrelated begin to form a recognisable history.

There is also a temptation to evaluate anniversaries according to what we have achieved since the original date. Seven years can sound like a substantial amount of time, particularly when one begins listing all the things a person might reasonably have accomplished. I have occasionally found myself examining my own progress in this way, wondering whether I should have completed more, travelled farther, or reached certain milestones sooner.

But I am becoming increasingly cautious about measuring the value of entire years through a collection of visible achievements. Life contains too many experiences that cannot be adequately represented by qualifications, promotions, purchases, or photographs.

Some years are occupied with preparation. Others require us to adjust to circumstances that were not part of the original plan. There are periods when we make obvious progress and others when maintaining ordinary stability requires considerable effort. I have learned things through work, relationships, travel, and personal responsibilities that do not fit neatly into a list of accomplishments. I would hate to look back upon seven years and conclude that only the moments producing something impressive deserved recognition. Much of life happens through activities that appear unremarkable while we are experiencing them.

Perhaps that is why I found the day’s modest celebrations rather appropriate. We had not organised a grand anniversary event, and there were no elaborate speeches or carefully arranged commemorative photographs. Instead, I had spent part of the day enjoying ordinary activities after a week of illness. I had gone outside, browsed books, admired music, eaten hotpot, and appreciated being able to participate in the world again. It was hardly the spectacular celebration somebody might imagine for a seven-year milestone, but it suited the circumstances.

After several days of feeling confined to the house, the simple act of going out had become something worth appreciating.

Being unwell had reminded me how quickly our priorities can change when health becomes less cooperative. During ordinary weeks, I often make plans around work and assume that I will possess enough energy to complete whatever I have arranged. I schedule responsibilities, look forward to activities, and occasionally underestimate how much rest I may require between them. It is easy to treat the body as reliable machinery when it is functioning reasonably well. We expect it to carry us through demanding shifts, inconvenient schedules, and the various obligations we have accumulated, preferably without introducing unexpected complications.

Then illness arrives and reminds us that the arrangement was never entirely under our control. Suddenly, ordinary tasks require more effort, familiar routines become difficult, and the smallest improvements feel significant. I was struck by how grateful I felt simply to be able to leave the house and enjoy an afternoon. Activities I would normally have considered routine had become pleasurable precisely because I had temporarily been unable to do them. The experience did not transform me into a completely different person, but it did encourage me to pay better attention to the assumptions I make about my own wellbeing.

I find it mildly embarrassing that I can spend so much time encouraging patients to recognise the importance of their health while occasionally needing the same lesson myself. I know the principles perfectly well. I understand that fatigue, symptoms, and recovery require appropriate consideration. Yet the practical demands of everyday life can make it tempting to postpone rest until some imaginary future period when everything will be less busy. I have noticed that this promised period rarely arrives. One responsibility finishes, another appears, and eventually the body may decide to interrupt the arrangements rather than wait for formal permission.

Perhaps I need to reconsider what it means to use time well. I have always valued being productive, and there is genuine satisfaction in completing work, developing skills, and making progress towards something important. I enjoy learning, writing, and pursuing interests that require effort. But I am beginning to question the idea that every hour must justify itself through an accomplishment. A day spent resting during illness is not necessarily wasted simply because it produces nothing that can be listed in a diary. Sometimes taking care of oneself is the most useful thing that can reasonably be done, even if it lacks the excitement of finishing a project.

I have been thinking about the things I want to give more attention to as October continues. Reading is one of them. My collection of books has grown considerably, and I sometimes suspect that purchasing literature has become a separate hobby from actually reading it. There are novels waiting patiently on shelves, their spines looking increasingly familiar despite the fact that I have not yet made a proper acquaintance with their contents. I would like to spend more evenings opening those books rather than simply admiring how attractive they look together. A shelf filled with unread literature may be aesthetically satisfying, but I suspect the authors would appreciate a little more participation from me.

I also want to continue learning deliberately at work. Nursing has taught me that professional competence requires sustained attention, curiosity, and the willingness to acknowledge what we do not yet understand. I want to remain interested in improving my knowledge and judgement without approaching every opportunity for development as another demand to be added to an already crowded schedule. There is something valuable about becoming better at what we do because we care about the quality of our work, rather than because we feel permanently obliged to demonstrate progress. I hope to preserve that distinction as my responsibilities continue developing.

Music deserves more room in my days too. I want to listen to albums properly, discover unfamiliar songs, and revisit the ones that have accompanied different periods of my life. There is something comforting about recognising a melody associated with an old memory, but I also enjoy discovering music that belongs entirely to the present. I would like more mornings accompanied by something beautiful, more commutes made pleasant by a good playlist, and more evenings when I can sit with a song without simultaneously attempting to complete several other tasks.

My faith is another part of life I want to approach with greater consistency. I have always valued prayer, particularly during difficult or uncertain circumstances, but I do not want it to become something I remember only when I feel overwhelmed. I want to make more room for gratitude during ordinary days, to visit church more regularly, and to give myself opportunities for quiet reflection without feeling that silence must immediately be filled by another responsibility. It is remarkably easy for work, worries, and everyday distractions to occupy so much mental space that the things we value most receive whatever attention remains afterwards. I would prefer to be more deliberate about that balance.

I also want to become more protective of my peace, although I am beginning to dislike the way the word is sometimes used as though a peaceful life requires avoiding every inconvenience and difficult conversation. That has never seemed particularly realistic to me. Responsibilities remain responsibilities, disagreements occasionally require attention, and there are circumstances we cannot simply ignore because they disturb our preferred atmosphere. What I want is something more practical: the ability to recognise which concerns deserve consideration and which have already occupied more of my thoughts than they reasonably should. I do not need to spend every spare moment mentally rehearsing situations that cannot be improved by further worrying.

Autumn usually encourages me to become unnecessarily philosophical about the trees. Every year, the leaves change colour, begin falling, and provide an irresistible opportunity to write something about change, acceptance, or the importance of letting go. I have used this particular metaphor often enough that the trees may reasonably be entitled to royalties. At this point, I suspect they would prefer that I find another subject and allow them to continue their seasonal activities without being recruited into my personal reflections. They are simply responding to the weather, after all. There is no evidence that the maple tree outside has developed a sophisticated opinion about my priorities.

So perhaps I will leave the leaves alone this October. Rather than interpreting every falling leaf as an invitation to reconsider my entire life, I would prefer to pay attention to the more practical lessons of the past week. I have been reminded that my health deserves consideration, that enjoyable activities do not need elaborate justification, and that I cannot arrange every part of life according to the demands of a calendar. There is something rather refreshing about allowing autumn to remain autumn while I concentrate upon the responsibilities and interests that actually belong to me.

By the time I returned home that evening, my energy had begun declining, and I was reminded that feeling sufficiently well to go outside did not mean I had returned to my usual level of activity. I took off my shoes, settled back into the familiar surroundings, and became aware of how pleasant it was to return to a house I had been so eager to escape only a few hours earlier. The rooms had not changed. The same furniture, blankets, and ordinary household sounds were waiting. Miyuki and Luna resumed their familiar activities, presumably reassured that their mother had not permanently abandoned her responsibilities and equally interested in discovering whether her return involved food.

The clock was still ticking.

I noticed it again while the evening settled around the house, but something about the sound felt different. During the previous days, I had listened to it with a growing sense of impatience, conscious of all the time passing while I remained indoors. The hours seemed to accumulate without producing anything I could point towards as evidence that the day had been worthwhile. Yet after going outside, browsing books, enjoying music, and sharing a meal, I realised that I had been assigning the clock a rather unreasonable responsibility. It had not been criticising me for resting. It was simply doing what clocks do, continuing its steady movement without expressing any particular opinion about my productivity.

I think we occasionally make time sound like an adversary because we are uncomfortable with how little control we possess over its passing.

We talk about racing against deadlines, running out of hours, losing time, and trying to catch up, as though the clock is deliberately withholding something we need. Of course, deadlines can be real and important, particularly when responsibilities depend upon them. But there is a difference between managing time sensibly and treating every minute as an opportunity we have somehow failed to exploit. I suspect I have occasionally confused the two, especially during periods when there seems to be more to do than I can realistically accomplish.

Seven years in the United Kingdom have passed without waiting for me to notice every milestone. The days have contained professional experiences, personal responsibilities, friendships, changes, and ordinary routines that seemed insignificant while they were happening. Some periods moved quickly, while others felt unnecessarily long. There were things I accomplished, plans that changed, and experiences whose importance only became obvious afterwards. I cannot rearrange those years or demand that they proceed according to my preferred schedule. What I can do is pay attention to the life I am living now, even when it looks rather less impressive than the list of ambitions waiting in my notebook.

I am not suggesting that I intend to abandon planning, productivity, or my tendency to maintain an unreasonable number of personal projects. I know myself too well to make that promise. There will undoubtedly be another morning when I decide I can complete several days’ worth of responsibilities before lunch, only to discover that the world has once again declined to cooperate with my arithmetic. But perhaps I can become more realistic about how much time and energy are available, and a little less inclined to regard rest as evidence that I have fallen behind.

The week indoors was not enjoyable, and I would certainly have preferred to spend it feeling well. But it reminded me of something I might otherwise have overlooked: being able to participate in ordinary life is itself worth appreciating. I do not need to wait for a major achievement to enjoy browsing a bookshop, discovering music, sharing hotpot, or simply stepping outside into the October air. These moments do not have to become significant milestones before they are allowed to matter. Sometimes they are pleasant precisely because nothing extraordinary is required of them.

And perhaps that is a reasonable way to mark seven years of living in another country. Not through a grand declaration about everything I have accomplished or a detailed comparison between the person who arrived in 2019 and the one writing this in 2026. Those reflections have their place, certainly, but I am content to acknowledge the anniversary while appreciating an ordinary day in the life I have gradually built here. The younger version of me could not have predicted every detail of that life, including the two cats currently supervising the household or the fact that I would one day regard browsing books after a week of illness as an important social achievement.

Later, as the house grew quieter, I thought again about how impatient I had become with the passing hours. I had spent several days waiting to feel better while resenting how little I seemed to be accomplishing. Yet the afternoon had reminded me that time can be experienced without constantly measuring its usefulness. An hour spent reading may be worthwhile because I enjoy the book. A meal can be memorable because of the food and company. An evening at home can be pleasant without requiring a task to be completed before bedtime. And a day spent recovering can be necessary even when it produces nothing more impressive than an improved ability to get out of bed.

The clock will continue ticking tomorrow, and I imagine it will remain entirely indifferent to whatever conclusions I have drawn from this experience. It will mark the hours while I work, read, write, pray, cook, travel, or spend an unreasonable amount of time photographing my cats. It will continue when I am busy and when I am resting, when I am pleased with what I have accomplished and when I am disappointed by unfinished plans. There is something almost comforting about that consistency, particularly once I stop interpreting it as an accusation.

I still have responsibilities waiting, books I want to read, professional ambitions to pursue, and personal projects that will require considerably more time than I currently possess. I doubt the coming months will become magically uncomplicated simply because I have written an essay about slowing down. But I hope to become better at recognising which things deserve urgency and which can reasonably wait. I want to make good use of my days without expecting every hour to justify its existence through work.

As for October, I think I shall allow it to proceed without demanding an elaborate personal transformation before November arrives. I want to recover properly, enjoy the things I have been missing, and return to my usual routines with a little more consideration for the person expected to carry them out. I would like to make time for books, music, prayer, and the ordinary pleasures that can become surprisingly easy to overlook when work is demanding. I would also appreciate fewer unsolicited meetings with illness, although I understand that this request may be outside the calendar’s authority.

The clock has continued its usual business throughout this entire reflection. It has not become slower, more considerate, or particularly interested in accommodating my intentions. I suspect it will continue behaving in precisely the same manner tomorrow, which is probably for the best. I have no desire to interfere with a perfectly functioning timekeeping device simply because I have been using it as an excuse to criticise myself.

The strange thing is that after almost a week of wanting the hours to move faster so I could feel better, I spent one pleasant afternoon wishing I could remain in it a little longer. The clock had not changed its pace. Only my opinion of what those hours were worth had changed.

I looked at it again before settling down for the evening, then turned my attention towards the books waiting to be opened, the familiar sounds of the house, and two cats who had apparently accepted that their mother would be continuing her domestic responsibilities after all.

There was still time for a cup of tea. Possibly a few pages of a novel. Perhaps some music, if I could resist the temptation to spend half an hour choosing what to play.

The clock could supervise the evening if it wished. I had other things to enjoy.

— Anj,

seven years into her British adventure, recovering from an involuntary domestic retreat, still hopelessly susceptible to bookshops and cat-themed merchandise, and finally questioning why she has spent so much of adulthood competing with an object that has never once bothered to run.

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